Bettinger, Ruth Flora

Bettinger, Ruth Flora

Female 1920 - 2016  (96 years)

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  • Name Bettinger, Ruth Flora  [1
    Born 12 Apr 1920  Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2
    Gender Female 
    Census 9 Apr 1930  Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    Residence 5 Sep 1945  Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Residence 4 Jun 2004  Southwick, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Died 3 Sep 2016  Springfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Buried Silver Street Cemetery, Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Person ID I69497  Sackett | Descendants of Thomas Sacket the Elder, Descendants of Simon Sackett the Colonist
    Last Modified 12 Sep 2022 

    Father Bettinger, Earle Thomas,   b. 4 Jun 1889, Otis, Berkshire County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 29 Jan 1976, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 86 years) 
    Mother Atkinson, Rachel,   b. 6 Nov 1888, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 30 Nov 1957, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 69 years) 
    Married 31 Oct 1910  Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [5, 6
    Children 8 children 
    +1. Bettinger, Hazel Rachel,   b. 28 Jun 1912, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 25 Nov 1990, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 78 years)
    +2. Bettinger, Harold Arthur,   b. 19 Feb 1915, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 5 Aug 1992, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 77 years)
     3. Bettinger, Faith Ida,   b. 26 Apr 1917, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 8 Feb 2012, Springfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 94 years)
    +4. Bettinger, Ruth Flora,   b. 12 Apr 1920, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 3 Sep 2016, Springfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 96 years)
    +5. Bettinger, Albert Raymond,   b. 6 Nov 1922, Granby, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 27 Nov 1976, Boston, Suffolk County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 54 years)
     6. Bettinger, Fred Ellsworth,   b. 14 Jan 1925, Hartland, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 6 May 2009  (Age 84 years)
    +7. Bettinger, Shirley J.,   b. 10 Jun 1927, East Hartland, Hartland, Hartford, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 9 May 2015, New Haven, New Haven County, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 87 years)
     8. Bettinger, Ralph E.,   b. 2 Feb 1931, East Hartland, Hartland, Hartford, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 5 Sep 1945, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 14 years)
     
    Family ID F27708  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Messenger, Allen Taller,   b. 10 Jul 1917, Granby, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 14 Jul 1956, Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 39 years) 
    Children 
    +1. Messenger, Douglas Allen,   b. 15 Apr 1942, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 25 Oct 2015, Springfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 73 years)
     2. Living
     3. Living
    Last Modified 29 Dec 2021 
    Family ID F27710  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 2 Kaslikowski, Stanley C.,   b. 1917, Bayonne, Hudson County, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 20 Apr 1990, Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 73 years) 
    Children 
     1. Kaslikowski, Richard S.,   b. 6 Mar 1959, Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 3 Jan 2017, Charlotte, Mecklenburg County, North Carolina, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 57 years)
    Last Modified 29 Dec 2021 
    Family ID F27711  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBorn - 12 Apr 1920 - Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - 9 Apr 1930 - Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsChild - Messenger, Douglas Allen - 15 Apr 1942 - Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence - 5 Sep 1945 - Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsChild - Kaslikowski, Richard S. - 6 Mar 1959 - Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence - 4 Jun 2004 - Southwick, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDied - 3 Sep 2016 - Springfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBuried - - Silver Street Cemetery, Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA Link to Google Earth
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  • Sources 
    1. [S543] Find A Grave (www.findagrave.com) (Reliability: 2), 29 Dec 2021.
      Memorial ID 79350828
      https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/79350828

      Ruth Flora Bettinger Kaslikowski
      Birth 12 Apr 1920
      Westfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA
      Death 3 Sep 2016 (aged 96)
      Springfield, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA
      Burial
      Silver Street Cemetery
      Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts, USA

      Ruth Flora Bettinger Messenger Kasilowski
      Born 1920 Apr 12 Westfield, MA
      Died 2016 Sep 3 Springfield, MA-Bay State Medical Center
      Age 96

      Worked at Noble & Cooley Drum Shop for many years

      Father Earl Bettinger
      Mother Rachel

      Married 17 yrs
      Allen Messenger
      Died 1956

      Married 33 yrs
      Stanley C. Kaslikoski
      Died 1990

      Children
      Douglas Messenger
      Richard Kaslikowski
      Died 2015

      Irene Egerton (Matthew)

      Evelyn Egerton (Stuart)

      SOURCES

      Ruth Flora Bettenger in the Massachusetts, Birth Index, 1860-1970
      Name: Ruth Flora Bettenger
      Birth Date: 1920
      Birth Place: Westfield, Massachusetts, USA
      Volume Number: 145
      Page Number: 445
      Index Volume Number: 92
      Reference Number: F63.M362 v.92

      Ruth Southwick in the U.S., Cemetery and Funeral Home Collection, 1847-Current
      Name: Ruth Southwick
      Maiden Name: Bettinger
      Gender: Female
      Death Age: 96
      Birth Date: 12 Apr 1920
      Birth Place: Westfield
      Residence Place: Granville
      Death Date: 3 Sep 2016
      Father: Earl Bettinger
      Mother: Rachel Bettinger
      Spouse: Allen Messenger
      Child: Douglas Messenger
      Richard Kaslikowski
      Irene Egerton
      Evelyn Egerton

      Researched by Ted Smith

    2. [S937] 1930 U.S. Census (Reliability: 3), 12 Sep 2022.
      1930 Census, enumerated 9 Apr 1930 at Greenville Rd in Hartford Township, Hartford County, Connecticut, United States

      Earl T Bettinger, Head, M, W, 40, M 21 yrs, Massachusetts, New York, Massachusetts, Farm laborer
      Rachel Bettinger, Wife, F, W, 41, m 21 yrs, Massachusetts, England, Massachusetts, None
      Hazel R Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 17, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Harold A Bettinger, Son, M, W, 14, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Faith I Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 12, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Ruth F Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 9, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Albert R Bettinger, Son, M, W, 7, S, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Fred E Bettinger, Son, M, W, 5, S, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Shirley J Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 2, S, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None

      Researched by Ted Smith

    3. [S1225] GenealogyBank.com (Reliability: 3), 29 Dec 2021.
      Springfield Republican (Springfield, Massachusetts) September 05, 1945

      WESTFIELD BOY COMMITS SUICIDE BY HANGING SELF

      Mother Finds Ralph E. Bettinger in Cellar of His Home Yesterday Morning--Was Despondent Over School

      Westfield, Sept. 4--Despondent because of having to go back to school, Ralph E. Bettinger, 14, son of Mr. and Mrs. Earle Bettinger of 17 Green avenue, a resident of this city for about a month, committed suicide by hanging himself in the cellar of his home some time this morning.

      Mrs. Bettinger found him and telephoned for medical aid. The first intimation that the police had of anything amiss was when headquarters received a call from Mrs. Charles Hosmer of 19 Green avenue telephoned them at 11:37 this morning and said that "something terrible had happened at the Bettinger home." Police found the boy lying on the cellar floor. Dr. Robert D. Hildreth, associate medical examiner pronounced death by hanging.

      The boy had taken a board, placed it between the floor joist, and then passed a clothes line over it. He apparently stood on a box after placing the rope around his neck. Attempts by the first fire department to revive the boy proved in vain. The body was taken to the Firtion-Hollister funeral home.

      Bettinger was born in East Hartland, Ct., and came to this city with his parents. Besides his parents, he leaves three brothers, Harold B., of Granville and Albert and Fred with the United States army overseas; four sisters, Mrs. James Morris, of Tarrifville, Ct.; Mrs. Raymmond Sandman and Mrs. Allen Messinger of Granville and Miss Shirley Bettinger of Hartford, Ct., and his grandmother, Mrs. Ellsworth Bettinger of this city.

      The funeral will be held Thursday afternoon at 2 at the Furtion-Hollister funeral home with Rev. Kenneth Brookes of the Second Congregational church officiating. Burial will be in Silver Street cemetery, Granville. Friends may call tomorrow from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9.

      Transcribed by Ted Smith

    4. [S1225] GenealogyBank.com (Reliability: 3), 29 Dec 2021.
      Allene Joyce Messenger Durgin, 38

      Allene Joyce Durgin

      Republican, The (Springfield, MA) - Monday, June 7, 2004
      1965 - 2004

      GRANVILLE - Allene Joyce (Messenger) Durgin, 38, of Silver Street, Granville, a long time Licensed Practical Nurse, died suddenly at her home on June 4, 2004. Allene is survived by her father, Douglas A. Messenger of Port Charlotte, Florida her former husband, Rodney L. Durgin of Chicopee, MA., 2 sisters; Marlene Hoffman and her husband Mark of Westfield, MA., Tammy Charbonneau and her husband David of Peru, MA., 3 nieces; Kristin Sturm, Ashley Hoffman and Brianna Hoffman, a nephew, Brent Sturm, maternal grandparents Doris and Dean Sleeper of Southwick and paternal grandmother Ruth Kaslikowski, also of Southwick. Her mother Joan (Sleeper) Messenger predeceased her in 1998. Born in Westfield, MA on July 23, 1965, Allene was a graduate of Westfield High School, Class of 1983. She enjoyed quilting and crafts making, but her greatest joy in life was the love she had for her nieces and nephews. For the past 20 years she was employed at Governor's Center, Westfield, a rest home. Her funeral services will be held on Tuesday, June 8, 2004 at 1:30 p.m. at the Southwick Forastiere Funeral Home, 624 College Highway, Southwick, MA, with burial to follow in the New Cemetery, also in Southwick MA.Calling hours at the funeral home will take place on Monday evening from 6 to 9 p.m.

      Republican, The (Springfield, MA) - Monday, June 7, 2004

      Republican, The (Springfield, Massachusetts) 07 June 2004, obit for Allene Joyce Durgin, GenealogyBank.com (https://www.genealogybank.com/doc/obituaries/obit/1032300AF84FE9CE-1032300AF84FE9CE : accessed 29 December 2021)

      Researched by Ted Smith

    5. [S1240] Massachusetts, U.S., Marriage Records, 1840-1915, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 29 Dec 2021.
      Name: Earle T Bettinger
      Age: 21
      Birth Year: abt 1889
      Birth Place: E Otis, Massachusetts
      Marriage Date: 31 Oct 1910
      Marriage Place: Westfield, Massachusetts, USA
      Father: Ellsworth Bettinger
      Mother: Ida J Soule
      Spouse: Rachael Atkinson

      Name: Rachael Atkinson
      Age: 21
      Birth Year: abt 1889
      Birth Place: Westfield
      Marriage Date: 31 Oct 1910
      Marriage Place: Westfield, Massachusetts, USA
      Father: James Atkinson
      Mother: Mellissa Wells
      Spouse: Earle T Bettinger

      Researched by Ted Smith

    6. [S937] 1930 U.S. Census (Reliability: 3), 12 Sep 2022.
      1930 Census, enumerated 9 Apr 1940 at Greenville Rd in Hartford Township, Hartford County, Connecticut, United States

      Earl T Bettinger, Head, M, W, 40, M 21 yrs, Massachusetts, New York, Massachusetts, Farm laborer
      Rachel Bettinger, Wife, F, W, 41, m 21 yrs, Massachusetts, England, Massachusetts, None
      Hazel R Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 17, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Harold A Bettinger, Son, M, W, 14, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Faith I Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 12, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Ruth F Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 9, S, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Albert R Bettinger, Son, M, W, 7, S, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Fred E Bettinger, Son, M, W, 5, S, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None
      Shirley J Bettinger, Daughter, F, W, 2, S, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Massachusetts, None

      Researched by Ted Smith


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