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  • Gender Female 
    Person ID I44303  Sackett | Descendants of Clarissa Sackett Cone
    Last Modified 13 Jun 2017 

    Father LaFave, Frederick James,   b. 10 Dec 1926, Jefferson County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 9 May 1993, Hammond, St. Lawrence County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 66 years) 
    Mother Stebbins, Mary Elizabeth,   b. 7 Jul 1930, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 4 Dec 2014, Rochester, Monroe County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 84 years) 
    Married 29 May 1948  [1
    Children 12 children 
    +1. LaFave, Sharon M.,   b. 17 Jul 1949, Jefferson County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 10 Feb 2009, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 59 years)
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    +4. LaFave, Joan T.,   b. 12 Oct 1952, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 1 Dec 2012, Utica, Oneida County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 60 years)
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    Family ID F16236  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

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    1. [S543] Find A Grave (www.findagrave.com) (Reliability: 2), 12 Jun 2017.
      From Find A Grave Memorial# 142545255
      https://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=142545255

      Mary Elizabeth Stebbins LaFave
      Birth: Jul. 7, 1930
      Watertown
      Jefferson County
      New York, USA
      Death: Dec. 4, 2014
      Rochester
      Monroe County
      New York, USA

      Obituary
      Mary E. LaFave
      Mary Elizabeth Stebbins LaFave, formerly of Watertown and Duck Cove Rd., Hammond, NY passed away on Dec. 4th 2014 at the age of 84. Mary died peacefully at her daughter?s home in Rochester, NY under the care of her loving family and Visiting Nurse Hospice.

      Born on July 7, 1930 in Watertown, NY daughter of William and Marie Stebbins, she attended St. Patrick?s School and graduated with honors from Immaculate Heart Academy. She married Frederick LaFave on May 29, 1948 at St. Patrick?s Church with Monsignor John Plunkett officiating.

      Mrs. LaFave worked at NY Telephone Company as a switchboard operator before going to Fort Drum where she worked for the US Dept. of Army as a purchasing agent in the contracting office, retiring in 1988.

      She was past president and member of the American Legion, VFW, Alexandria Bay Senior Citizens Club, St. Cyril?s Alter & Rosary Society, Alexandria Bay Homemakers, and River Hospital Auxiliary. She also enjoyed being a member of the church choir and volunteering at church and Hospice.

      Mary is survived by her sons James and Sharon LaFave, Joseph LaFave and his partner Patricia Stevens, Paul LaFave and his partner Lisa McDonald, daughters, Ann LaFave, Patricia LaFave-Williams, Ruth and Howard (Chip) Smothers, Karen and Richard Lee, Dorothy Derrigo, Linda and Gary Guthrie, Susanne and Thomas Scheg, 30 grandchildren, 49 great grandchildren, 2 great-great children and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

      Mary was predeceased by her loving husband of 50 years Frederick LaFave,brother, William Stebbins, daughter and son-in law Sharon and Bruce Graban, daughter, Joan Bennett, and grandson Michael LaFave.

      Family and friends are welcome to call Friday, December 12th, 7 to 9 pm, at Hart & Bruce Funeral Home, 117 N. Massey St., Watertown, NY

      A memorial mass will be celebrated on Saturday, December 13th, 10:00 am at St. Patrick?s Church on Arsenal/Massey ST. Entombment will take place at the convenience of the family at Glenwood Mausoleum.
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      Obituary from her online obituary at Hart & Bruce Funeral Home
      In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make contributions in Mary?s memory may be directed to St. Cyril?s Church, 17 Rock St., Alexandria Bay, NY 13617, or Visiting Nurse Hospice, 2180 Empire Blvd., Webster, NY 14580.

      Online condolences may be shared at www.hartandbrucefh.com.

      Family links:
      Parents:
      William Stebbins (1898 - 1959)
      Marie Stebbins (1900 - 1964)

      Spouse:
      Frederick James LaFave (1925 - 1993)

      Burial:
      Glenwood Cemetery
      Watertown
      Jefferson County
      New York, USA

      Created by: Dorsey Barnes Drane
      Record added: Feb 13, 2015
      Find A Grave Memorial# 142545255

      Researched by Ted Smith


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