Desmare, Kinta

Desmare, Kinta

Female 1898 - 1989  (90 years)

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  • Name Desmare, Kinta  [1
    Born 4 Dec 1898  New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [2, 3
    Gender Female 
    Died 18 Nov 1989  New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Buried Metarie Cemetery, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [3
    Person ID I49267  Sackett
    Last Modified 25 Mar 2020 

    Father Desmare, Louis Joseph,   b. Feb 1870, Washington, St. Landry, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. Nov 1917, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age ~ 47 years) 
    Mother DeGruy, Louise Antonia,   b. 21 Jun 1868, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 30 Aug 1948, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 80 years) 
    Children
     1. Desmare, Kinta,   b. 4 Dec 1898, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 18 Nov 1989, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 90 years)
     
    Family ID F18480  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Merrill, Carles Edward,   d. Unknown 
    Married 8 Mar 1939  Escambia County, Florida, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4, 5
    Divorced 17 Dec 1952  West Palm Beach, Palm Beach County, Florida, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [6
    Last Modified 1 Aug 2018 
    Family ID F18479  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 2 De Rham, Stephen Whitney,   b. 7 Oct 1905, Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 7 Jul 1961, Southampton, Suffolk County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 55 years) 
    Last Modified 1 Aug 2018 
    Family ID F18478  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 3 Di Carpegna, Alfredo Gabrielll,   b. 9 Dec 1898, Torino, Torino, Italy Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 9 Oct 1969, Southampton, Suffolk County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 70 years) 
    Married 21 Sep 1966  Southampton, Suffolk County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [7
    Last Modified 25 Mar 2020 
    Family ID F18481  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBorn - 4 Dec 1898 - New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarried - 8 Mar 1939 - Escambia County, Florida, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDivorced - 17 Dec 1952 - West Palm Beach, Palm Beach County, Florida, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarried - 21 Sep 1966 - Southampton, Suffolk County, New York, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDied - 18 Nov 1989 - New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBuried - - Metarie Cemetery, New Orleans, Orleans Parish, Louisiana, USA Link to Google Earth
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  • Sources 
    1. [S62] New York Times (Reliability: 3), 24 Mar 2020.
      New York Times (New York, New York), 8 Jul 1961

      COMDR. S. W. DE RHAM

      SOUTHAMPTON, L.I., July 7--Lieut. Comdr. Stephen Whitney de Rham, U. S. N. retired, died today at his home on Little Plains Road after a long illness. He was 5 years old. He also had a residence at 2 East Seventieth Street, New York.

      Commander de Rahm graduated from Harvard in 1927. He was a member of the Racquet and Tennis Club in New York and the Southampton Club.

      Survivors are his widow, Kinta; a brother, Casimir, and a sister, Mrs. Frederick S. Whitlock.

      Transcribed by Ted Smith

    2. [S1674] New Orleans, Louisiana, Birth Records Index, 1790-1915, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 31 Jul 2018.
      Name: Kinta Desmare
      Gender: Female
      Race: White
      Birth Date: 4 Dec 1898
      Birth Place: New Orleans, Louisiana, USA
      Father: Louis Desmare
      Mother: Antonia DeGruy

      Researched by Ted Smith

    3. [S543] Find A Grave (www.findagrave.com) (Reliability: 3), 31 Jul 2018.
      Memorial ID 167072108
      https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/167072108

      Kinta Desmare Di Carpegna
      Birth: Dec. 4, 1898
      New Orleans
      Orleans Parish
      Louisiana, USA
      Death: Nov. 18, 1989
      New Orleans
      Orleans Parish
      Louisiana, USA

      Kinta Desmare first married Charles Edward Merrill in Pensacola, Fl., of New York, Southampton, and Palm Beach, Florida. They were divorced in 1952 in Florida. No children were born from this marriage. She next married S. Whitney DeRham of New York City and South Hampton, Long Island, NY. They were divorced. No children. She then married "Count" Alfred Gabriell Di Carpegna, a widower, in New York City. He was born 09 DEC 1898 in Torino, Torino, Italy. No children from this marriage. His obituary was published in the Times-Picayune, New Orleans, LA., on Friday, October 10, 1969, on page 22:

      COUNT DI CARPEGNA. Count Alfredo Gabrielll Di Carpegna of Southampton, Long Island, on Thursday, October 9, 1969. Beloved husband of Countess Kinta de Mare (sic), father of Guido Di Carpegna of Rome Italy, brother of Martina Borea d'Olmo. Also survived by 3 grandchildren. Reposing at the Brockett Funeral Home, 263 Hampton Road, Southampton, Long Island, NY. Requiem Mass Saturday, October 11, 1969 at the Sacred Heart R.C. Church at 11 a.m. Interment Rome, Italy."

      Whether this man was ever an actual "Count" is unknown.

      Find A Grave contributor Mary M

      Family links:
      Parents:
      Louis Joseph Desmare (1870 - 1917)
      Louise Antonia DeGruy Desmare (1868 - 1948)

      Spouse:
      Stephen Whitney De Rham (1905 - 1961)*

      Siblings:
      Clara Desmare Uran (1895 - 1979)*
      Kinta Desmare Di Carpegna (1898 - 1989)
      Estelle Louise Desmare McCall (1903 - 2002)*

      *Calculated relationship

      Burial:
      Metairie Cemetery
      New Orleans
      Orleans Parish
      Louisiana, USA

      Created by: Diona Dickerson
      Record added: Jul 16, 2016
      Find A Grave Memorial# 167072108

      Researched by Ted Smith

    4. [S1210] Florida Marriage Indexes, 1822-1875 and 1927-2001, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 31 Jul 2018.
      Name: Kinta Desmare
      Spouse: Charles Edward Merrill
      County of Marriage: Escambia
      Marriage Date: 1939
      Volume: 481
      Certificate: 5220
      Source: Florida Department of Health

      Researched by Ted Smith

    5. [S1958] Florida, County Marriage Records, 1823-1982, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 31 Jul 2018.
      Name: Kinta Desmare
      Gender: Female
      Marriage Date: 8 Mar 1939
      Marriage Place: Florida, USA
      Spouse: Charles Edward Merrill
      Film Number: 002115731

      Researched by Ted Smith

    6. [S832] Ancestry.com (Reliability: 3), 31 Jul 2018.
      The Daily Register (Harrisburg, Illinois), page 6

      Indicates that Charles Edward Merrill, 66, New York stockbroker was ordered to pay his wife $600,000 over the next 9 1/2 years as a divorce settlement. plus his wife's attorney fees.

      Researched by Ted Smith

    7. [S62] New York Times (Reliability: 3), 24 Mar 2020.
      New York Times (New York, New York), 22 Sep 1966

      Mrs. Kinta de Rham Married to a Count
      SOUTHAMPTON, L.I., Sept. 21?Mrs. Kinta des Mare Merrill de Rham of Southampton and New York, widow of S. Whitney de Rham, was married today to Count Alfredo di Carpegna of Rome. Msgr. G.H. Killeen performed the ceremony in the Roman Catholic Church of the Sacred Heart.

      . . .

      The bride's first marriage to the late Charles Edward Merrill, a partner of Merrill, Lynch, Pierce, Fenner & Beane, ended in divorce. Count di Carpegna has a son by a previous marriage, Count Guido di Carpegna.

      The couple will live in Southampton, New York, and Rome.

      Transcribed by Ted Smith


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