De Rham, Charles J. S.

De Rham, Charles J. S.

Male 1929 - 2016  (87 years)

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  • Name De Rham, Charles J. S. 
    Born 7 Nov 1929  Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2, 3
    Gender Male 
    Census 29 Apr 1930  West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4
    Residence 1935  West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Census 10 Apr 1940  Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Died 26 Nov 2016  [2
    Person ID I43008  Sackett | Descendants of Simon Sackett the Colonist, Descendants of Thomas Sacket the Elder
    Last Modified 22 Mar 2020 

    Father De Rham, Henry Longfellow,   b. 5 Sep 1905, Cold Spring, Putnam County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 7 Jan 1976, Montclair Township, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 70 years) 
    Mother Colby, Edith Hyde,   b. 20 Apr 1906, West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 24 Aug 1973, Greenwich, Fairfield County, Connecticut, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 67 years) 
    Married 1 Oct 1927  West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [5
    Divorced 1942  [6
    Children 2 children 
    +1. De Rham, Charles J. S.,   b. 7 Nov 1929, Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 26 Nov 2016  (Age 87 years)
     2. Living
     
    Family ID F15670  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Stedman, Nancy Arven,   b. 30 Jun 1929, Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 27 Jan 1975, Littleton, Grafton County, New Hampshire, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 45 years) 
    Married 10 Jun 1954  New York City, New York, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [7
    Children 
     1. Living
     2. Living
    Last Modified 22 Mar 2020 
    Family ID F23537  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 2 Living 
    Last Modified 22 Mar 2020 
    Family ID F23538  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBorn - 7 Nov 1929 - Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - 29 Apr 1930 - West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsResidence - 1935 - West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsCensus - 10 Apr 1940 - Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, USA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarried - 10 Jun 1954 - New York City, New York, USA Link to Google Earth
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  • Sources 
    1. [S814] 1940 U.S. Census (Reliability: 3), 3 Feb 2017.
      1940 Census, enumerated 10 Apr 1940 at 13 Gramercy Park in Manhattan, New York City, New York County, New York, United States

      Household Role Gender Age Birthplace
      Henry De Rham Head M 34 New York
      C Edith De Rham Wife F 33 New Jersey
      J B Charles De Rham Son M 10 New York
      Edith De Rham Daughter F 6 New York
      Solange Martin Servant F 22 Switzerland

      "United States Census, 1940," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:K7M8-XY5 : accessed 3 February 2017), C Edith De Rham in household of Henry De Rham, Assembly District 10, Manhattan, New York City, New York, New York, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) 31-827, sheet 7B, line 58, family 341, Sixteenth Census of the United States, 1940, NARA digital publication T627. Records of the Bureau of the Census, 1790 - 2007, RG 29. Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 2012, roll 2643.

      Researched by Ted Smith

    2. [S1619] Newspapers.com (Reliability: 3), 21 Mar 2020.
      The Philadelphia Inquirer (Philadelphia, Pennsylvania), 26 Nov 2016, Page B05

      DeRHAM CHARLES, died in his sleep November 19 with his wife of 24 years, Lalla, by his side. Born November 7, 1929 in New York, NY, a Marine Corps veteran, in 1954, Charles graduated from Harvard, began a 35 year career at IBM and married Nancy Stedman. Among many accomplishments with IBM, he worked with Jacquelyn Kennedy to computerize addresses and after the president's assassination to thank citizens for their condolences. He is survived by his wife, Lalla de Rham, 2 sons with his first wife, Nancy and their wives, J. Christopher and Alice de Rham, Philip and Leslie de Rham, step-daughter, Paula Mather Shober and her husband Stephen P. Swan, stepson, Edward Wharton Shober III ("Nubby") and his partner, Rebecca Baldwin, and step-granddaughters, Josephine Shober Miller and Lang Chapoton Miller. A Memorial Service will be held at St. David's Episcopal Church in Radnor, PA and a celebration of his life will be planned for the spring in New Hampshire.

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    3. [S1985] New York, New York, Birth Index, 1910-1965, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 21 Mar 2020.
      Name: Charles De Rham 2nd
      Birth Date: 7 Nov 1929
      Birth Place: Manhatta, New York City, New York, USA
      Certificate Number: 354??

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    4. [S937] 1930 U.S. Census (Reliability: 3), 3 Feb 2017.
      1930 Census, enumerated 29 Apr 1930 on Lewellyn Park in West Orange, Essex County, New Jersey, United States

      Household Role Gender Age Birthplace
      Henery L De Robin Head M 24 New York
      Edith C H De Robin Wife F 24 Nova Scotia (marked out, replaced by N.Y.)
      Charles De Robin Son M 0 New York

      "United States Census, 1930," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:X464-2SC : accessed 3 February 2017), Henery L De Robin, West Orange, Essex, New Jersey, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) ED 631, sheet 13A, line 15, family 251, NARA microfilm publication T626 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 2002), roll 1344; FHL microfilm 2,341,079.

      Researched by Ted Smith

    5. [S1579] New Jersey, Episcopal Diocese of Newark Church Records, 1809-1816, 1825-1970, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 3 Feb 2017.
      Name: Henry L. De Rham
      Marriage Age: 22
      Event Type: Marriage
      Birth Place: Cold Spring, New York
      Residence: Cold Spring, New York
      Occupation: Marine Insurance
      Marriage Date: 1 Oct 1927 at 3 p.m.
      Marriage Place: West Orange, New Jersey, USA in parish church
      Father: Henry Casimir De Rham
      Mother: Francis Appleton Dana
      Spouse: Edith Hyde Colby
      Spouse's Age: 21
      Spouse's Residence: Orange, New Jersey
      Spouse's Birthplace: Orange
      Spouse's Father: Everett Colby
      Spouse's Mother: Edith Hyde
      Witnesses: S. Whitney De Rham & Renee Colby

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    6. [S1225] GenealogyBank.com (Reliability: 3), 3 Feb 2017.
      Date: Thursday, August 26, 1943
      Paper: Jersey Journal (Jersey City, New Jersey)
      Page: 2
      Mrs. Colby's Daughter Weds

      West Orange ? Mrs. Edith Colby de Rham, daughter of Mrs. Everett Colby and the late Senator Colby of Llewellyn Park, will be married this afternoon at 4'o'clock to Charles Edward Grafmueller of New York and Detroit, formerly of Rutherford and son of Edward Grafmueller and the late Mrs. Grafmueller. The ceremony will be performed in the garden of Oldstead Lodge, the Colby home, by Police Judge James A. Degnan of West Orange. Because of the recent death of Mrs. De Rham's father only members of the immediate families will attend. The couple will be unattended and there will be no reception.

      Mr. Grafmueller is on three days leave from his duties as a civilian attached to the Army Ordnance Department in Detroit. The couple have taken a house in Grosse Point, Mich.

      Mrs. De Rham's sister is Mrs. William H. Vanderbilt, wife of Comdr. Vanderbilt, former governor of Rhode Island, and her brother is Everett Colby, Jr. Her first marriage to Henry Longfellow de Rham took place in 1927 and ended last year in divorce.

      They have a son, Charles, 14, and a daughter, Edith, 10. She and Mr. Grafmueller's daughter, Joan S., will be with them in Grosse Point.

      Mr. Grafmueller's first wife, who died several years ago, was Miss Barbara Brownlee of Danbury, Conn., niece of Harold Dennis of Newark.

      Mr. de Rham right after the divorce married Miss Estelle Bolling of Richmond, Va., Aug. 6.

      Transcribed by Ted Smith

    7. [S2152] U.S., School Yearbooks, 1900-1999, (Ancestry.com) (Reliability: 3), 21 Mar 2020.
      Harvard College, Cambridge, Massachusetts, 1951 yearbook, page 49

      CHARLES de RHAM: Sale Representative, International Business Machines Corporation. Home Address, 5814 Beech Ave., Bethesda 14, Md. Office Address, I.B.M. Corp., Connecticut Avenue, N.W., Washington, D.C. Married, Nancy Arven Stedman, June 10, 1954, New York, New York. Children, John Christopher, May 12, 1955; Philip Stedman, June 8, 1958.

      Transcribed by Ted Smith


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