 1930 - 2014 (84 years)
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| Name |
Stebbins, Mary Elizabeth |
| Born |
7 Jul 1930 |
Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA  [1] |
| Gender |
Female |
| Residence |
1935 |
Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA [2] |
| Census |
4 Apr 1940 |
Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA [2] |
| Residence |
2 Oct 1997 |
Alexandria Bay, Jefferson County, New York, USA [3] |
| Residence |
9 Dec 2012 |
Rochester, Monroe County, New York, USA [4] |
| Died |
4 Dec 2014 |
Rochester, Monroe County, New York, USA [1, 5] |
| Buried |
Glenwood Cemetery, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA [1] |
| Person ID |
I44295 |
Sackett | Descendants of Clarissa Sackett Cone |
| Last Modified |
14 Jun 2017 |
| Father |
Stebbins, William White, b. 22 Sep 1898, Owasco, Cayuga County, New York, USA , d. 18 Dec 1959, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA (Age 61 years) |
| Mother |
Flieg, Marie H., b. Jan 1899, Hartford, Hartford County, Connecticut, USA , d. 24 Feb 1964, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA (Age ~ 65 years) |
| Children |
2 children |
| + | 1. Stebbins, William Joseph, b. 29 Jun 1928, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA , d. 10 Aug 1990, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA (Age 62 years) | | + | 2. Stebbins, Mary Elizabeth, b. 7 Jul 1930, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA , d. 4 Dec 2014, Rochester, Monroe County, New York, USA (Age 84 years) |
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| Family ID |
F16235 |
Group Sheet | Family Chart |
| Family |
LaFave, Frederick James, b. 10 Dec 1926, Jefferson County, New York, USA , d. 9 May 1993, Hammond, St. Lawrence County, New York, USA (Age 66 years) |
| Married |
29 May 1948 [1] |
| Children |
| + | 1. LaFave, Sharon M., b. 17 Jul 1949, Jefferson County, New York, USA , d. 10 Feb 2009, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA (Age 59 years) |
| | 2. Living |
| + | 3. Living |
| + | 4. LaFave, Joan T., b. 12 Oct 1952, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA , d. 1 Dec 2012, Utica, Oneida County, New York, USA (Age 60 years) |
| | 5. Living |
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| + | 7. Living |
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| Last Modified |
14 Jun 2017 |
| Family ID |
F16236 |
Group Sheet | Family Chart |
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 | Born - 7 Jul 1930 - Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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| Residence - 1935 - Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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| Census - 4 Apr 1940 - Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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 | Child - LaFave, Sharon M. - 17 Jul 1949 - Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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| Child - LaFave, Joan T. - 12 Oct 1952 - Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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 | Residence - 2 Oct 1997 - Alexandria Bay, Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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 | Residence - 9 Dec 2012 - Rochester, Monroe County, New York, USA |
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| Died - 4 Dec 2014 - Rochester, Monroe County, New York, USA |
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 | Buried - - Glenwood Cemetery, Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, USA |
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| Sources |
- [S543] Find A Grave (www.findagrave.com) (Reliability: 2), 12 Jun 2017.
From Find A Grave Memorial# 142545255
https://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=142545255
Mary Elizabeth Stebbins LaFave
Birth: Jul. 7, 1930
Watertown
Jefferson County
New York, USA
Death: Dec. 4, 2014
Rochester
Monroe County
New York, USA
Obituary
Mary E. LaFave
Mary Elizabeth Stebbins LaFave, formerly of Watertown and Duck Cove Rd., Hammond, NY passed away on Dec. 4th 2014 at the age of 84. Mary died peacefully at her daughter?s home in Rochester, NY under the care of her loving family and Visiting Nurse Hospice.
Born on July 7, 1930 in Watertown, NY daughter of William and Marie Stebbins, she attended St. Patrick?s School and graduated with honors from Immaculate Heart Academy. She married Frederick LaFave on May 29, 1948 at St. Patrick?s Church with Monsignor John Plunkett officiating.
Mrs. LaFave worked at NY Telephone Company as a switchboard operator before going to Fort Drum where she worked for the US Dept. of Army as a purchasing agent in the contracting office, retiring in 1988.
She was past president and member of the American Legion, VFW, Alexandria Bay Senior Citizens Club, St. Cyril?s Alter & Rosary Society, Alexandria Bay Homemakers, and River Hospital Auxiliary. She also enjoyed being a member of the church choir and volunteering at church and Hospice.
Mary is survived by her sons James and Sharon LaFave, Joseph LaFave and his partner Patricia Stevens, Paul LaFave and his partner Lisa McDonald, daughters, Ann LaFave, Patricia LaFave-Williams, Ruth and Howard (Chip) Smothers, Karen and Richard Lee, Dorothy Derrigo, Linda and Gary Guthrie, Susanne and Thomas Scheg, 30 grandchildren, 49 great grandchildren, 2 great-great children and many nieces, nephews and cousins.
Mary was predeceased by her loving husband of 50 years Frederick LaFave,brother, William Stebbins, daughter and son-in law Sharon and Bruce Graban, daughter, Joan Bennett, and grandson Michael LaFave.
Family and friends are welcome to call Friday, December 12th, 7 to 9 pm, at Hart & Bruce Funeral Home, 117 N. Massey St., Watertown, NY
A memorial mass will be celebrated on Saturday, December 13th, 10:00 am at St. Patrick?s Church on Arsenal/Massey ST. Entombment will take place at the convenience of the family at Glenwood Mausoleum.
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Obituary from her online obituary at Hart & Bruce Funeral Home
In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make contributions in Mary?s memory may be directed to St. Cyril?s Church, 17 Rock St., Alexandria Bay, NY 13617, or Visiting Nurse Hospice, 2180 Empire Blvd., Webster, NY 14580.
Online condolences may be shared at www.hartandbrucefh.com.
Family links:
Parents:
William Stebbins (1898 - 1959)
Marie Stebbins (1900 - 1964)
Spouse:
Frederick James LaFave (1925 - 1993)
Burial:
Glenwood Cemetery
Watertown
Jefferson County
New York, USA
Created by: Dorsey Barnes Drane
Record added: Feb 13, 2015
Find A Grave Memorial# 142545255
Researched by Ted Smith
- [S814] 1940 U.S. Census (Reliability: 3), 13 Jun 2017.
1940 Census, enumerated 4 Apr 1940 at 424 E Meadow in Watertown, Jefferson County, New York, United States
William Stebbins Head M 40 New York
Marie Stebbins Wife F 38 Connecticut
William Stebbins Son M 12 New York
Marie Stebbins Daughter F 9 New York
All lived in Same place in 1935
"United States Census, 1940," database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:K3YS-91Y : accessed 14 June 2017), Marie Stebbins in household of William Stebbins, Ward 6, Watertown, Watertown City, Jefferson, New York, United States; citing enumeration district (ED) 23-80, sheet 5A, line 37, family 88, Sixteenth Census of the United States, 1940, NARA digital publication T627. Records of the Bureau of the Census, 1790 - 2007, RG 29. Washington, D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, 2012, roll 2546.
- [S1225] GenealogyBank.com (Reliability: 3), 13 Jun 2017.
MICHAEL J. LAFAVE AIRMAN, DISPATCHER
A prayer service for Michael J. LaFave, 22, of 20849 Reasoner Road, will be at 10:15 a.m. Saturday at Reed & Benoit Funeral Home, Watertown, followed by an 11 a.m. funeral Mass at the Church of Our Lady of the Sacred Heart, Watertown, with the Rev. Mark McDonald officiating. Burial will be in Brookside Cemetery, Watertown.
Calling hours will be from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.
Airman LaFave was found dead Oct. 2 at Fort Stuart Army Base in Georgia. The cause and date of death are still undetermined. An Air Force spokesman said today that toxicology test results are being awaited and it may be "some time" before any disclosures are made about the investigation.
Airman LaFave had been missing since July 14, when McGuire Air Force Base, N.J., listed him as absent without leave.
Airman LaFave, a vehicle operator and dispatcher, was stationed at McGuire Air Force Base since February 1996 and had been previously stationed at Mildenhall Air Force Base in England for 2 1/2 years.
While at basic training at Lackland Air Force Base, San Antonio, Texas, he was dorm chief and his platoon was awarded the "Honor Flight."
During his Air Force career, he received several letters of commendation, including one for guiding a congressional delegation of 40 people on the anniversary of V-E Day in England. He averted a tragedy when a truck served into his lane.
He was awarded a Bronze Star in Kuwait and received the Air Force Achievement Medal during Operation Southern Watch in Saudi Arabia.
Born Dec. 15, 1974, in Watertown, son of James and Sharon Fayette LaFave, Brownville, he was a 1993 graduate of General Brown Central School, Dexter, where he was on the varsity football, wrestling and lacrosse teams. In his junior year, he was voted prom king.
He married Brandie Lynn Nichol Sept. 21, 1994, at Bury St. Edmund, England.
Airman LaFave visited the elderly in hospitals and volunteered to help disabled children in the Special Olympics in England and New Jersey. He enjoyed hunting, fishing and sports.
Surviving besides his wife and parents are a sister, Lisa Wallace, Dexter; a brother, Jeffrey, at home in Brownville; his maternal grandmother, Dorothy Fayette Putnam, Cape Vincent; his paternal grandmother, Mary LaFave, Alexandria Bay; his maternal great-grandmother, Flossie Smades, Watertown; a niece, a nephew, and several aunts, uncles and cousins.
Watertown Daily Times (NY) - Thursday, October 23, 1997
"Watertown Daily Times", New York, GenealogyBank.com (http://genealogybank.com/doc/obituaries/obit/1043F52465FE14E4-1043F52465FE14E4 : accessed 13 June 2017)
MICHAEL J. LAFAVE AIRMAN, DISPATCHER
- [S1018] Obituary (Reliability: 3), 13 Jun 2017.
Watertown Daily Times, 4 Dec 2012
http://www.watertowndailytimes.com/article/20121204/OBIT01/712049985&
Joan T. Bennett
LOWVILLE, N.Y. ? Joan T. Bennett, 60, of 5590 River St., Lowville, passed Saturday, Dec. 1, at St. Luke?s Hospital in Utica.
Calling hours will be 4 to 6 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 6, at Hart & Bruce Funeral Home, Watertown.
Born Oct. 12, 1952, in Watertown, a daughter of Frederick and Mary Stebbins LaFave, she graduated from Watertown High School.
She married Charles Bennett and was a homemaker.
Mrs. Bennett was a health aid in Watertown for a few years.
She enjoyed sewing and cooking.
Surviving besides her husband are her mother, Mary LaFave, Rochester; two sons and a daughter-in-law, Charles W. Bennett, Dexter, and Timothy A. and Katie A. Bennett, Lowville; a grandson, Aaron Young; three brothers and a sister-in-law, Joseph LaFave, Watertown, Paul LaFave, Hammond, James and Sharon LaFave, Brownville; seven sisters and four brothers-in-law, Ruth and Howard Smothers, Patricia LaFave, Susanne and Thomas Scheg, all of Rochester, Karen and Richard Lee, Watertown, Ann LaFave, Chaumont, Dorothy Derrigo, Brownville, Linda and Gary Guthrie, Fla.; several nieces and nephews.
Her father, Frederick, a sister, Sharon Graban, and a nephew, Michael LaFave, all died before.
Researched by Ted Smith
- [S1018] Obituary (Reliability: 3), 13 Jun 2017.
Watertown Daily Times, 9 Dec 2014
http://www.watertowndailytimes.com/article/20141209/OBIT/141208520
Mary E. LaFave
Mary Elizabeth Stebbins LaFave, formerly of Watertown and Duck Cove Rd., Hammond, NY passed away on Dec. 4th 2014 at the age of 84. Mary died peacefully at her daughter?s home in Rochester, NY under the care of her loving family and Visiting Nurse Hospice.
Born on July 7, 1930 in Watertown, NY daughter of William and Marie Stebbins, she attended St. Patrick?s School and graduated with honors from Immaculate Heart Academy. She married Frederick LaFave on May 29, 1948 at St. Patrick?s Church with Monsignor John Plunkett officiating.
Mrs. LaFave worked at NY Telephone Company as a switchboard operator before going to Fort Drum where she worked for the US Dept. of Army as a purchasing agent in the contracting office, retiring in 1988.
She was past president and member of the American Legion, VFW, Alexandria Bay Senior Citizens Club, St. Cyril?s Alter & Rosary Society, Alexandria Bay Homemakers, and River Hospital Auxiliary. She also enjoyed being a member of the church choir and volunteering at church and Hospice.
Mary is survived by her sons James and Sharon LaFave, Joseph LaFave and his partner Patricia Stevens, Paul LaFave and his partner Lisa McDonald, daughters Ann LaFave, Patricia LaFave-Williams, Ruth and Howard (Chip) Smothers, Karen and Richard Lee, Dorothy Derrigo, Linda and Gary Guthrie, Susanne and Thomas Scheg, 30 grandchildren, 49 great grandchildren, 2 great-great children and many nieces, nephews and cousins.
Mary was predeceased by her loving husband of 50 years Frederick LaFave, brother, William Stebbins, daughter and son-in law Sharon and Bruce Graban, daughter, Joan Bennett, and grandson Michael LaFave.
Family and friends are welcome to call Friday, December 12th, 7to9 pm, at Hart & Bruce Funeral Home, 117 N. Massey St., Watertown, NY
A memorial mass will be celebrated on Saturday, December 13th, 10:00 am at St. Patrick?s Church on Arsenal/Massey ST. Entombment will take place at the convenience of the family at Glenwood Mausoleum.
In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make contributions in Mary?s memory may be directed to St. Cyril?s Church, 17 Rock St., Alexandria Bay, NY 13617, or Visiting Nurse Hospice, 2180 Empire Blvd., Webster, NY 14580.
Online condolences may be shared at www.hartandbrucefh.com.
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